After thirty-two plus years practicing law I have had more than my share of clients tell me that their particular dispute was not about the money. Any lawyer practicing for any length of time has had the same experience and usually when a client says it isn’t about the money it typically is ALL about

While the parties control the outcome of a mediation, the mediator manages the process from which the outcome flows. The preceding post mentioned the fact that a mediator is obligated to conduct a quality mediation and protect the “quality of the process”. What does that mean? Is a quality process simply good coffee and donuts?

I blew out my knee twice playing college football  As a consequence I have more than a passing familiarity of the anatomy of the human knee. Does that knowledge of the knee’s anatomy mean that I am competent to perform knee surgery? The answer is obvious and despite my personal familiarity with the anatomy of

It is likely no coincidence that self-determination is listed as the first standard in the Model Standards of Conduct for Mediators (“the Model Standards”). The Model Standards were designed to “…serve as fundamental ethical guidelines for persons mediating in all practice contexts.” Self-determination is not just a discretionary academic principle: a mediator is required to

I mediated many cases before ever having had any training, formal or otherwise, as a mediator. My impression of a good mediator before training was of someone who didn’t engage in any of the “touchy feely” stuff like joint sessions, interests of the parties or self-determination. A good mediator was forceful, got right to business

Dealing with impasse is an issue that arises in nearly every mediation that I handle. There are many different ways to address impasse depending on the circumstances of the particular mediation. In certain circumstances I like to suggest to the parties what is referred to as a mediator’s proposal. Determining the “certain circumstances” is more

Anyone that has ever negotiated anything knows the oft repeated phrase “the devil is in the details”.  In my experience as a mediator, I have found that often the parties or their lawyers leave until the very end what are often times significant and important terms of the settlement. I am not suggesting that this

When you go in to a mediation do you have a plan? If not, I think you are making a big mistake. You would never go in to a trial without a plan. Neither should you enter the mediation room without one. Preparation involves knowing your case – who, when, what, where and why of

While I have written previously about the use of “Med-Arb”, the concept of binding mediation was foreign to me until recently.  I read an article written by Peter Gene Merrill entitled “Binding Mediation: The Time Has Come for This ADR Process.”  The process is quite simple as described by Mr. Merrill:

“Binding mediation commences with

I mentioned in the last blog the importance in my opinion of having a pre-mediation caucus (fancy mediator jargon for a phone call) with the lawyers involved in the case. I do not always have the mediation submissions by the time of that call – it is helpful if I do, but not required. I